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Tristan & Maddie

A look through Tristan and Maddie's St. Louis wedding, from getting ready and the ceremony to portraits, reception, and how I approached photographing the day.

By Shane Michael3 min read

Before anyone said “I do”

Maddie’s custom dress was hanging, hair and makeup were underway, Tristan was getting ready on his side, and people were already asking where things were. So, pretty normal wedding morning.

The elf and hobbit influence was already starting to show up in the dress, flowers, colors, and smaller details without beating you over the head with a theme.

I moved between both sides photographing the prep, the details, and the people in the room before everybody suddenly had somewhere else they needed to be.

Wedding dress hanging in the getting-ready room
Maddie having her hair and makeup finished
Hands fastening the back of Maddie’s gown
A boutonniere being pinned to Tristan’s blue suit

A few minutes with just them

Once we had a little room in the day, Tristan and Maddie stepped away from everyone for portraits. The sky stayed overcast, which gave us soft light around the bridge and water, and Tristan’s blue suit had absolutely no intention of blending into all that green.

We started on the bridge, moved around the property, and gave Maddie’s dress some room to move for a few frames. After that, the wedding party joined us and we worked through the group before heading back into the rest of the day.

Tristan and Maddie together outdoors with purple flowers
Tristan and Maddie standing on a wooden bridge
Maddie holding her dress out for an outdoor portrait
Wedding party gathered outdoors with purple bouquets

Then it was time to make it official

Up to this point, the day had been all movement. Getting ready, details, portraits, people finding their places. Then everything slowed down.

This wedding had a subtle elf and hobbit influence running through it, and once the ceremony started, that side of it really settled in. Maddie’s custom dress didn’t need any help standing out, and the whole setting had just enough character to make the ceremony feel like its own little world without turning into a costume party.

Once she came down the aisle, my job was mostly to stay with it. Tristan’s face, the reactions, the smaller moments, the two of them finally standing there together. Nothing needed to be forced. It was all already happening.

A young attendant walking toward the ceremony
Maddie walking with her father toward the ceremony
Tristan and Maddie with their wedding party beneath the pavilion
Tristan and Maddie standing together during the outdoor ceremony
Wide view of the ceremony under a flower-covered pavilion
Tristan and Maddie walking back down the aisle together

The theme kept going

The elf and hobbit influence didn’t stop at the ceremony. It carried into the reception through the cake, guestbook, greenery, candles, and all the smaller pieces they had worked into the day.

The cake topper was especially on-brand, and the guestbook looked like it belonged in the same world without turning the whole room into a themed attraction.

I photographed the details before everyone got settled in and started moving things around, because once the reception starts, nothing stays untouched for very long.

Wedding cake topped with a miniature couple
Purple floral centerpiece beside candles
Decorative circular wedding guestbook
Reception head table with greenery and candles

Then everyone got to relax

Once the formal stuff was out of the way, the whole room changed. Tristan and Maddie made their entrance, speeches started, dinner happened, and everybody finally settled in.

By the time they hit the dance floor, nobody was worried about timelines anymore. It was just the two of them in the middle of the room with their people around them, which is usually when a wedding starts feeling a lot less organized and a lot more fun.

Tristan and Maddie entering the reception room
A speech at the reception head table
Tristan and Maddie dancing in the warmly lit reception room
Tristan and Maddie kissing during their first dance